The Intimacy Experiment by Rosie Danan tells the story of a hot young rabbi who connects with a sex worker and former porn star at a conference for educators. He's looking for a way to reinvigorate adult ed and increase membership at his first congregational pulpit; she wants to bring honesty and frankness into sex education. The unlikely duo contrive a seven-session series to cover the gamut of meeting someone to date, to how to end things and survive a breakup. Themes of the book include vulnerability, acceptance, trauma recovery, self-care, and differentiation. During this session participants can expect a lively discussion about dating, slut- shaming, navigating controversial continuing education topics, and how the Jewish tradition incorporates the values of consent and mutual pleasure in intimate relationships.

spice level: 🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️

Participants who finish the book will get the most out of the discussion; otherwise, be prepared for spoilers!

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Beth Schreiber is a Jew by Choice who's a sucker for a great love story. She's a librarian, teacher, trainer, and consultant, and a member of Core Team for the 2025 National Havurah Committee Summer Institute.